KAWEN?! (what da….!)
It seems having the life partner became a hot topic in my
cyber-life. Words like ‘da ad psgn hidup?’ or ‘da ready nk dirikn masjid’
played repeatedly every day…(wargh, I’m really scared- mengapakah harus begini
pemikiran mereka yg menjejak 20 tahun?) I’m totally agreed with the idea about
married helps the teenagers to avoid unnecessarily things to happen. But I’m
really shocked here as people around me totally change their way of thinking
things (drastically!). this makes me wonder, are they aware about what is the
real marriage is all about? For me (coating back from my beloved Ustz Yazid
said), marry is all about responsibilities… responsibilities, which is closely
related to ‘amanah’ (bnd yg pling berat
itu ialah amanah-Imam al-Bukhary). Are this people (we, me or you) are ready to
hold those responsibilities? Have you gain enough knowledge, can you guide you
partner, are you stable enough, etc? I’m aware that young marriage have shown
its success through many (I can say, thousands, millions..) evidences. But my
point is, let us reflects we ourselves. Make sure that you are sure that the ‘masjid’
that you want to build is strong enough, can produce high quality products and
follow the right way (Islam way)
*sincerely, this is a though from a person that in the confuse
state (act, the word confuse is not the accurate one to describe my state, but
that the closest one, I think…)
*feedback is much appreciated
